In many parts
of the world, people have become increasing fond of living together before
marriage. In my own opinion, it has both advantages and disadvantages, which I
will talk about in this essay.
First, the advantages are the following.
Living together is a simple and easy way to communicate with your boyfriend or
girlfriend. With communicate so easy, they can help with a few things, like
increase the understanding for each other and also the increase the bond with
each other. The relationship between each other can steady and consolidate and
bring the relationship to a higher level than is possible through everyday
life. It also gives the lovers time to understand more about each other. This
chance of living together may be a huge help in the near future, as when the
lovers were married, they will know about each other very well by that time. Also,
with the relationship between each other so strong, this may reduces the chance
of the couple being divorced. This promises a steady and beautiful future for
the couple.
However, everything with advantage must
have disadvantages. When the lovers are living together for some time, they
will know a lot about each other. When that happens there might be a few
outcome. First, they know a lot about each other’s weakness and their “ugly”
side. Which might make one of the lovers wants to leave the other. Second, they
may get bored of having to look at the same person for a very long period of
time, and might go out and have a mistress. With this happening, the
relationship before will be ruined and end terribly. Also they might only care
about their selves and forget about the whole world, like their families and
friends. They might fail to care about people around them with their ignorance
when all things in their eyes are each other only.
Therefore, for conclusion, I can see
that there are more disadvantages than advantages for living together before
marriage. Living together before marriage can both ruin relationships and
destroy the family relationships and also friendships. A person with only love
for one person is not a person who should be valued in everyday life. A person
should learn to love everyone and to care about everyone in his or her life.
Living together before marriage is a bad thing.
By Greyrocks
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